FREE ESSAY ON PERCEPTION: A PSYCHOLOGY PAPER

PERCEPTION: A PSYCHOLOGY PAPER

There is no second chance for a first impression. Perception has never been random, since
the beginning of time it has been human nature to judge others before really getting a
chance to know them. People immediately cast others into stereotypes in every situation:
they form a schema, or an organized set of thoughts about something containing properties
and uses. These schemas effect the way people carry themselves around others. Schemas are
usually formed with in eight seconds of getting the initial impression of a person. This
by psychologists is know as the ?eight-second rule,? where people have been proven to
form hypothesizes about others with in eight seconds of meeting or seeing an individual
for the first time. Human nature has never been stated more accurately than in one little
phrase, yet I have never fully understood the cliche until just recently. 
As I sat here in the computer lab last week I noticed how I judge those around me.
Although she speaks nothing, I have already put together an assumption about ?the girl
sitting to my left:? her personality, work habits and attitude through a semantic
analogy, or forming a link between physical appearance and personality. Wearing gray
pajama pants and a comfortable fleece sweatshirt while holding a dark cloth blanket, I
have understood in my mind that she likes to be cozy and secure. She seems to be a girl
with a very soft nice voice, even though I have never heard her talk. As ?the girl
sitting to my left? uses earphones while at the computer, I put together that she
probably is very considerate of others. These assumptions could, for all I know is false
and inaccurate, but as a human being I realize my judgments on others. I came to this
realization also while studying the guy behind me.
Just as my other subject, ?the guy behind me? seems to be very ?uncool? to say the least.
His oversized plaid jacket, tight laced large sneakers, and tight jeans combining with
his out of control curly hair and spectacles allow myself to automatically place ?the guy
behind me? in a stereotype of nerds. The way he crosses his legs also leads me to believe
he is one of those that probably enjoy computers and Dungeons & Dragons, yet for all I
know this guy could be the best basketball player at Catawba. By his appearance I have
already made assumptions about his lifestyle, or formed something referred to as
Functional Association. After realizing the extent of judgement I cast on others, I began
to contemplate if others would place me in certain stereotypes if I didn?t appear as I
do; so, I decided to form my own experiment.
I decided to make myself salient, or stand out, to better see my impressions on people. I
began a three-day experiment where I would wear my not-so attractive glasses, a hooded
sweatshirt, and Velcro shoes from Wal-Mart to dress like one would call a ?bum.? Of my
many experiences of the weekend, three stood out from all the rest: my attendance at the
soccer game, my trip to the Bar Charlotte nightclub, and being introduced to new
friends.
No girl in their right mind would dance with a guy with big ugly glasses. For we all know
they have already formed something called an illusory correlation, or a memory of a
negative or distasteful person or instance. Here I began to look at not only girls, but
also guy?s faces to see what sort of an effect my appearance had on the way they viewed
me. Sure enough I was getting looks of disgust from some, while faces of amusement from
others; here I began to realize the brutality of human nature. 
First impressions are everything in today?s world. When dressed like a nerd with a
straight-billed, over-sized ball cap, a greasy hooded sweatshirt tucked in urkel-style
pulled up pants, I cast an impression to many spectators at this past weekend?s soccer
match. Many parents looked as though I was repulsive, some thought I was joking, while
others thought that it was my real lifestyle. Before I knew it I felt eyes from all
directions casting judgements upon me. I began to smile comprehending a little more about
perception of others, but I learned even more when my friend Katie introduced me to new
acquaintances. 
When meeting attractive girls, most guys tend to attempt to look their very best. With my
normal testing outfit I gained my uneasy looks from Katie?s friends and soon they had
formed opinions of me?one of which was their romantic disinterest in me. They began to
better accept me, though as I conversed with them more, yet never anything more than
acceptance. Later that night, I decided to put my contacts in for the first time in three
days and I soon realized the effect of appearance. For the first time, the girls were
attracted to me because of my appearance and to them I replied to their stares with ?I?m
not as ugly as you first thought, huh?? 
With these experiences I began to see first hand how people judge others and place people
into schemas. After these encounters, I thought back to when I first arrived here at
Catawba College, and the many assumptions I made of people that, in fact, turned out to
be false.
To the naked eye, my friend Larry seems to be a weird homosexual male into drama and
musical theatre, but after one early morning session at the computer lab I began to
realize that Larry is a funny and enjoyable fellow. Here I passed judgement on others
before getting to know them, much like my first impression of my good friend Heath. 
Heath seemed to be a dumb male with his Beavis and Butthead type laugh and his
testostoronic voice. I began to know, though, that Heath is not only a smart individual,
with his sat score of 1480, but also a talented singer and lacrosse player where I first
thought of him as clumsy and stupid. Stupidity is a common label people tend to place
others.
Stephen, a recent friend of mine, appeared by his diction, attitude, and demeanor to be a
person not of high intelligence or extensive vocabulary at all. As I came to find out,
Stephen was very smart, earning a high school GPA of 3.8, and having intentions of a
political science pre-law major. 
Furthermore, you justly cannot judge a book by its cover. Throughout not only my
experiments, but also my experiences I have grasped a great comprehension of how people
form quick assumptions about others. Through my first-hand experiments and acquaintances
I have seen human nature, and in the course of my observations I learned that we all,
even myself, are victims of this judgmental view of others. Impressions, formed by all
people, truly affect your interactions in everyday life.